Learning Disabilities Linked to Home Out of Order
The Christian Church cannot flourish without the Christian home. The Christian home is the backbone of the nation, the salt of civilization. A Christian home is an institution where parents are bonded together by Christian love, where children are welcome and Spiritually instructed, and the Lord Jesus is not only the supposed head of the home, but the actual head, where parents and children gather daily for family worship. Otherwise, when out of order, the enemy comes to bring evil on your children, such as learning disabilities, gender confusion or a rebellious child. God has made it clear that the husband is to be the priest of the home.
I. God-fearing Fathers: God has placed the husband as head of the home Gen. 18:19. Abraham commanded his household faithfully. The household includes the wife, children, and servants.
Eph. 5:23, “For the husband is head of the wife, even as Christ is head of the church.”
This is God’s order and the home that reverses it breaks God’s plan and destroys the peace of that home.
This does not mean that the wife is a slave beneath the husband’s feet. She is an helpmeet, taken from his side to remain at his side, an equal partner.
It is the husband’s duty to love his wife. Eph. 5:25, “Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church and gave himself for it.”
This isn’t mere respect. This is the tremendous love of I Cor. 13, loving in health, in sickness, in poverty, and in posterity.
Wives, if your husband is out of order or is making wrong decisions, you keep your mouth shut and go to the Lord for the Lord to communicate to your husband. If you do this, your trust will grow, God will bring more peace, etc.
Now, if the husband asks your advise, you have a right to your opinion or thoughts about issue but he is the ultimate decision maker and whatever he decides, you have to honor his decision even when it is wrong.
When a wife nags or corrects a husband, it only puts the husband in defense and only creates division and confusion in the household. More things are done in prayer. You see God is the husband’s covering and when you overstep your boundaries of the order, then you are interfering in God’s ways. For the wife, it only shows the wife lacks trust in her husband or God. Read Proverbs 31 in which gives great instructions to the wife.
Now, the husband is required to be faithful to his wife. We live in an age of lax moral standards and easy divorce and infidelity. The standards of God have not changed. God still demands honesty, frankness, and faithfulness between the partners contracting marriage.
It is the husband’s duty to comfort his wife in time of sorrow, I Sam. 1:8. Even though most husbands are very detached emotionally, they should support their wives and give them strength because they are their covering.
He should consult with his wife on business matters, for they are a team. Like I said earlier, wives should be consulted on but whatever decision he makes, she has to honor his decision regardless if she thinks it is right or wrong.
By virtue of marriage, they two have become one, a single unit, Gen. 31:4-7.
Jacob’s wives rightly reply in verse 16, “Whatsoever God hath said to you, do”. Which means, we are yours, we belong to you, we obey you now.
The Christian husband will always put Christ first in his life, Luke 14:26. What if he does not do this, then the wife, needs to pray and cover her husband daily.
He must love his wife, but he must love Christ more.
The husband is priest of the family and is responsible to establish a family altar for daily family worship. He is responsible for grace at meals.
Job offered sacrifices for the whole family, Job. 1:5.
II. God-fearing Mothers: Almost all great men have been made great by one or two loving women – A godly mother or a devoted wife. They are tremedous assets.
The wife’s first duty is to love and and serve Jesus Christ, Luke 14:26.
The wife’s second duty is to obey her husband. Eph. 5:22, “Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.” You see it says submit to your husbands even when they make wrong choices.
Sarah was very exemplary. I Pet. 3:6, “Even as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord.” This is a hard lesson for the modern wife, but she can never be a happy, God-fearing, and God-pleasing woman, until she submits to the plan of God.
The reason for this is given in I Tim. 2:11-15, that Eve was the first in the transgression in the garden of Eden. See also Gen. 3:16.
If the husband is unsaved, she will have to become the spiritual head of the home, yet in subjection to her own husband. God will give wisdom and grace.
God’s ideal Christian home is where both parents love Jesus.
Wives are not only to respect and obey their husbands, but they are to love them, too. Titus 2:4. Husbands need a great deal of affection, too.
The woman is not to be adorned with ornaments, I Tim. 2:9,10. That is, outward adornments, but they ought to be adorned with good works, including:
1. Modesty and sobriety. I Tim. 2:9, so sadly lacking in this day and age.
2. With a meek and quiet spirit. I Pet. 3:4,5.
Good wives and good mothers are wonderful gifts from the Lord. They become a tremendous blessing to their husbands and families. Prov. 31:10, “Who can find a virtuous woman, for her price is far above rubies.”
Prov. 31:12, “She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.”
Wives need a bit of appreciation and praise occasionally. Prov. 31:28, “Her children arise up, and call her blessed, her husband also, and he praiseth her.”
III God-fearing Parents: A home cannot be happy without children. The parents who deliberately hinder the birth of a family are disobeying God and waiting for judgement.
God’s order, “Be fruitful and multiply, and replenish the earth”, Gen. 1:28.
In some cases, God closes the womb and even though the husband and wife pray for children, their prayers are denied, temperarily or permanently (Hannah). Did you know envy and jealousy will also bring a curse to the womb?
Parents are to realize that their children are a precious heritage from the Lord.
Parents are to love their children, Titus 2:4.
Parents are to bring their children to the Lord at an early age, Matt. 19:13,14.
Parents are to train and discipline their children for the Lord. Prov. 22:6, “Train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old, he will not depart from it”.
Parents, be sure you BRING your children to Sunday School and Church.
Teach the children Bible stories at home and give them a part in family prayers.
Teach the children to obey God and the laws of the country, Duet. 32:46.
Eli was punished because he could not control his wicked sons.
Parents are to provide for their children – food, clothing, and opportunities for an education and means to choose their own life vocation under God, I Tim. 5:8.
Parents are not to provoke their children to wrath, Eph. 6:4. Sometimes when the parents quarrel, the frustrated one releases pent-up feelings by whipping the children. This is very wrong.
Above all, let godly parents pray for their children. Pray that they will be saved. Pray that they will overcome evil, etc.
IV God-fearing Children: Ex. 20:12, “Honour thy father and thy mother, that thy days may be long upon the land”.
Isaac was exemplary in Gen. 22, by carrying the wood without murmuring.
Samuel was most exemplary with instant obedience, even in the middle of the night.
Jesus, Himself, as a child, was obedient to his parents, Luke 2:51.
Conclusion: The secret of a successful Christian Home, is the family altar, where Christ is crowned as Head of that home. Love, is the second secret.
There are not many Christian homes these days, but they are still beautiful and are still the only way a home can truly be happy. They are attainable, for God will still help every member of the family to be what He wants them to be, if they will only ask His help and trust Him and obey Him. If you will follow God’s plan, and set forth above, your own home can become a Christian home which will bring joy to the hearts of every family member. Believe God, trust Him and obey Him, and you will see that He is true to His word.
What happens when the house is out of order? There is much chaos for the child and the child gets hit with confusion. When a house is out of order, it opens the door for the enemy to bring distruction to the children such as learning disabilities of all types, gender confusion, etc.
If you study about gender confusion, most of the time the wife wore the paints in the family or was forced too because the husband was passive. Other reasons is generational that can cause this problem.
by: Traci Morin
Servant and Ordained Minister of the Gospel of Jesus Christ
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